Los ikati bebesoloko bevelisa a umdla okhethekileyo phakathi kwabathandi bezilwanyana kunye noluntu ngokubanzi. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ezininzi amabinzana malunga neekati abaye bakwazi ukubamba ubuntu babo obuntsonkothileyo kunye nobudlelwane obukhethekileyo ababugcinayo nabantu. La mazwi, azuzwe kwisithethe okanye avela kwinkcubeko yangoku, abe yindlela yokuqonda iifene kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, ukubeka amagama kwindlela yokuziphatha enokuphazamisa.
Ezaziwayo Iingcaphuno zekati Abahombisi kuphela imidiya yoluntu okanye babonise iincwadi, kodwa bongeza ukuchukumisa, ukubonakalisa, okanye ububele xa bethetha ngezi zilwanyana. Uluvo olulula olunje "Iikati zinayo yonke into: ukuncoma, ukulala okungapheliyo, kunye nenkampani yabanini bazo." ibonisa Umbono wokuzimela kwenkazana, kodwa kunye nesidingo sabo esifihlakeleyo sobuqabane. Utyekelo lokwabelana ngezi ntlobo zamabinzana luqaqambisa i umdla wasekuhlaleni ukutyhila iimfihlakalo ezijikeleze iikati kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, umnqweno wokusondela kubo ngamagama aqhelekileyo.
Kutheni abantu bethanda ukucaphula malunga neekati kakhulu?
Amabinzana malunga neekati ukukhonza ukudibanisa iimvakalelo kunye namava okwabelwana ngawo. Nabani na ohlala nekati uyaluqonda uphawu lwesilwanyana sasekhaya kwezi ntetho, ukusuka kumoya wobungangamsha kunye neqela ukuya kwicala elinothando ngakumbi abalubonisayo kwabo bathenjwe ngabo. Iingcali zokuziphatha kweenkazana Babonisa ukuba uninzi lwezi ngcaphuno zisinceda siqonde ngcono iikati, zinciphise igama labo lokungahlalisani okanye zingaqondakali kwaye ziqaqambise ukubaluleka kokunikela ingqalelo kwizijekulo zabo kunye nemiqondiso.
Kule mihla, iikowuti zekati zifumana ukuthandwa kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, apho abasebenzisi kwihlabathi liphela babebelana ngazo zikhatshwa nemifanekiso ethandekayo okanye ehlekisayo. “Ikhaya kulapho ikati yakho ikhoyo” Lelinye laloo mazwi aqhelekileyo agxininisa ingcamango yokuba, ngaphaya kwenkangeleko yayo ekude, i-feline yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bemihla ngemihla yabantu abaninzi.
Amabinzana adumileyo kunye nentsingiselo yawo
Nangona amanye amabinzana malunga neekati zinokubonakala ngathi zivela ngokulula, inyaniso kukuba uninzi lwazo lune imvelaphi enomdla. Iintetho zemveli Iingoma ezinjengethi “Xa ikati imkile, iimpuku ziyadanisa” okanye ezakudala “Ukufuna ukwazi ubulele ikati” yimizekelo yendlela iimazi ezikhuthaze ngayo. uthelekiso kunye nezifundo esebenzayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. La mazwi aye asinda ekuhambeni kwexesha kuba bonakalisa iimeko ezibonakalayo kunye vuka uvelwano ngophawu olulodwa lweekati.
Kwelinye icala, abaninzi amabinzana adumile Inxulunyaniswa nababhali, amagcisa, kunye nabathandi beekati, ucaphulo olufana ne "Ikati yiphazili engaphendulekiyo" okanye "Akukho mntu unokuba nekati, unokwamkelwa yiyo kuphela" baye badlula imida. isishwankathelo amava abo babelana ngamakhaya abo kunye nekati, ukuqaqambisa loo ngxubevange yemfihlakalo kunye nokudibana okubenza bangathinteki.
Amabinzana adumileyo Nceda kwakunye nokubhangisa iinkolelo zobuxoki. Iintetho ezifana “Ikati ayinabuqhophololo, iyakhetha kuphela” ukuzenzisa ukufaneleka Intsomi yokuba iikati zikude okanye zizilwanyana ezinzima. Emva kwebinzana ngalinye, kuhlala kukho ukujonga indlela abaziphatha ngayo, i-anecdote, okanye umboniso osimema ukuba sijonge ngaphaya kwee-clichés.
Iingcaphuno malunga neekati kunye nendima yazo kwinkcubeko yanamhlanje
Namhlanje, amabinzana malunga neekati hlala Indawo ebalaseleyo kwintetho edumileyo nakwisayensi. Ushicilelo olukhethekileyo, olufana nolweengcali ngemibandela yempilo noogqirha bezilwanyana, lude lusebenzise amanye ala mabinzana ukwazisa ngentlonipho, impilo-ntle, nenkathalo efunwa ziimazi. Ukunyuka kweememes zekati kunye neeprofayili zemidiya yoluntu ihlaziye irepertoire yezicaphulo, ukuziqhelanisa nazo iindlela ezintsha zonxibelelwano kunye nokuzisa inkcubeko yeefeline kufutshane nezizukulwana ezitsha.
Ukongeza, la mabinzana azalisekisa indima yentlalontle, ekubeni vumela Ukunika ilizwi kwiimvakalelo kunye neemeko ebekuya kuba nzima ukuzivakalisa ngenye indlela. Abanini bahlala bephendukela kubo ukuze babelane ngamava abo, bacele iingcebiso, okanye bahlekise indlela yokuziphatha engaqhelekanga yezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Ixabiso lamabinzana malunga neekati, ngoko, iyaqhubeka yoburharha okanye uncwadi. Baye baba a isibonelelo sokuvelisa uvelwano kunye nokubonakaliswa kokuvela kobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kunye nezilwanyana.
Iingcaphuno malunga neekati zihlala zibubungqina bokusondela, imfihlakalo, kunye nokuncoma ezi zilwanyana zikhuthazayo. Ukusuka kweyona inzulu ukuya kweyona iqhelekileyo, intetho nganye ibonisa inkalo yelizwe leenkabi ezintsonkothileyo kunye nesimemo sokuqonda ngcono abo, kangangeenkulungwane, baye basikhapha ngobuqili kunye nobuhle.
