Uzifumana njani iikati ezimbini zabantu abadala ukuba babe ngabahlobo: Isikhokelo esipheleleyo

  • Iikati zizilwanyana ezihlala kwindawo ethile, kodwa ngomonde ziyakwazi ukwamkela enye imazi endlwini.
  • Intshayelelo ngokuthe ngcembe, ukutshintshiselana ngevumba, kunye nonxibelelwano olugadwayo ngundoqo.
  • Ukubonelela ngezibonelelo ezahlukeneyo kunye nokusebenzisa iipheromones zokwenziwa kunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo.
  • Iimpawu zokwamkelwa ziquka ukudlala ngokudibeneyo, ukuzilungisa, kunye nokuphumla okwabelwanayo.
Monica SanchezIhlaziywe

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Amakati abahlobo

Ukuhlalisana phakathi kweekati ezikhulileyo kunokubonakala kungumngeni, ngakumbi ukuba zombini ziyindawo kwaye azisetyenziselwa ukwabelana ngendawo yazo. Kukholelwa kakhulu ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba iikati ezimbini zabantu abadala zibe ngabahlobo, kodwa inyaniso kukuba, nge buchule izakhono kunye nomonde omkhulu, kunokwenzeka ukukhuthaza ubudlelwane obuhambelanayo. Apha siza kuphonononga indlela yokwazisa iimazi ezimbini zabantu abadala, zeziphi izinto ezichaphazela ubudlelwane babo, kunye ingcebiso esebenzayo ukuphucula ukuhlalisana phakathi kwabo.

Ubume bommandla weekati

Iikati zaziwa ngokuba zizilwanyana zomhlaba. Kubo, ikhaya labo lingaphezulu nje kwendawo yokutya nokuphumla: yindawo yabo yokusabela, ummandla wabo. Olu phawu lunokwenza kube nzima ukufika kwekati entsha, kuba ithuku lokuqala lomhlali liya kuba kukukhusela indawo yakhe kumhlaseli. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yokuba imimandla ayithethi ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba bamkele enye ikati. Ngolawulo olululo, oku kuziqhelanisa kunokuba lula kakhulu.

Ukugqiba izinto kubudlelwane phakathi kweekati

Ikati nganye inenye ubuntu eyodwa, kodwa kukho iindlela eziqhelekileyo ezinokuphembelela indlela ezinxulumana ngayo:

  • Ukwabelana ngesondo kwekati: Amadoda athanda ukuzola kwaye abe bhetyebhetye xa kufikwa ekwamkeleni enye ikati, ngelixa amabhinqa ethanda ukukhuthala kwaye afune indawo yawo.
  • Umda: Iikati ezincinci zidla ngokuwamkela ngakumbi amava amatsha. Iikati ezindala zinokufuna ixesha elingakumbi lokuziqhelanisa.
  • Ukuhlalisana kwangaphambili: Ikati ethe yavezwa kwezinye iifelines ngexesha lokuphila kwayo iyakwazi ukwamkela iqabane.

Ikati yabantu abadala

Iindlela ezisebenzayo zokwazisa iikati ezimbini

Inkqubo yokwazisa phakathi kweekati kufuneka ibe ngokugqithiseleyo ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye niqinisekise ukuba nobabini niziva nikhululekile. Ngezantsi sichaza inyathelo ngalinye:

  1. Ukwahlukaniswa kokuqala: Kucetyiswa ukugcina ikati entsha kwigumbi elahlukileyo kwiintsuku ezisi-7 zokuqala. Qinisekisa ukuba unayo yonke into ayifunayo: ukutya, amanzi, ibhedi, ibhokisi yesanti kunye nezinto zokudlala. Oku kuya kumvumela ukuba aziqhelanise nokusingqongileyo ngelixa ephepha ukujongana ngezikhondo zamehlo.
  2. Utshintshiselwano ngevumba: Iikati zisebenzisa imvakalelo yokujoja njengenye yezona zinto ziphambili herramientas yokuqatshelwa. Tshintshiselana ngeengubo okanye iibhedi ukuze baqhelane nevumba lomnye nomnye ngaphandle kokudibana ngokuthe ngqo.
  3. Ukudibana kwamehlo okulawulwayo: Ibavumela ukuba babonane ngocango oluvulekileyo ngesiqingatha okanye umqobo obonakalayo onjengomthwali. Jonga indlela abasabela ngayo; Ukuba kukho iimpawu zobundlobongela, buyela kwisinyathelo sangaphambili.
  4. Unxibelelwano oluphantsi kolawulo: Emva kokuba bekhululekile, vumela iintlanganiso kwigumbi elinye phantsi kweliso. Gcina iiseshini zimfutshane kwaye womeleze ukuziphatha okulungileyo ngemivuzo.
Ikati nomvundla
Inqaku elidibeneyo:
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuhlala phakathi kweekati kunye nemivundla?

Ukuzenzela indawo ukuphepha iingxabano

Umba obalulekileyo wokukhuthaza ukuhlalisana kukuqinisekisa ukuba zombini iikati ziyafikelela kuzo izixhobo ezizezakho. Oku kuquka:

  • Ibhokisi yenkunkuma enye kwikati nganye kudityaniswe nenye eyongezelelweyo.
  • Iibhedi ezahlukeneyo kunye neendawo zokulala.
  • Izondla umntu ngamnye kunye nezinkcenkceshelo.
  • Amathoyizi kunye nezikrweli ezaneleyo ukuphepha ukhuphiswano.

Nika indawo khu selekile kunye nokuhlonipha iindawo ezithuthuzelayo zekati nganye ngundoqo ekuthinteleni iingxabano.

Ukuxhatshazwa phakathi kwesisombululo seekati

Ukusetyenziswa kweepheromones kunye nokuqiniswa okulungileyo

Las iipheromones zokwenziwa Banokuba ngumthombo oluncedo wokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokudala indawo enoxolo. lukhululekile. Ezi mveliso zifumaneka kwiifomathi ezifana ne-diffusers okanye i-aerosols. Hlanganisa ukusetyenziswa kwayo kunye nokuqiniswa okulungileyo, okufana nokuphatha okanye imidlalo, xa iikati zibonisa ukuziphatha okuzolileyo nokungathathi hlangothi.

Ukuchonga ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kweekati

Njengoko ukuhlalisana kuqhubela phambili, uya kubona iimpawu ezithile ezibonisa ukuba iikati ziphuhlisa iqhina. ezintle:

  • Umdlalo odibeneyo: Ukuba badlala kunye, luphawu lokuba bayathembana.
  • Ukulungisana: Ukukhotha komeleza ubudlelwane bakho.
  • Ukuphumla okwabiwe: Ukulala ngokusondeleyo okanye kunye kubonisa ukwamkelana.

Amaqhinga okulawula iingxabano

Nangona iimeko ezingcono kakhulu, ukuxabana okanye ukulwa kunokuvela phakathi kweekati. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, chonga unobangela wongquzulwano kwaye uqwalasele la manyathelo alandelayo:

  • Bahlukanise okwethutyana kwaye uphinde izigaba zokuqala zentshayelelo.
  • Dibana nogqirha wezilwanyana okanye i-ethologist yenkazi ukuze ufumane iingcebiso ezizodwa.
  • Kuphephe ukungenelela ngokuthe ngqo kwimilo yomzimba, njengoko unokwenzakala.

Umonde kunye nokungaguquguquki kubalulekile ukoyisa obu bunzima.

Isisombululo sokuxhatshazwa kwekati

Ngexesha, ukuzinikela kunye ne buchule Ngokufanelekileyo, iikati ezimbini ezindala zinokuseka ubudlelwane obuhambelanayo kwiimeko ezininzi. Nangona besenokungabi ngabahlobo abasenyongweni ehlabathini, basenokukwazi ukuhlalisana ngoxolo baze babelane ngendawo yabo ngaphandle kongquzulwano. Inkqubela nganye encinci iya kuba luloyiso, kwaye ukubabona kunye kuya kubonisa wonke umzamo owenziweyo.


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      xavier sitsho
    yenzayo 9 iminyaka

    Ndineenyanga ezili-10 ubudala ikati elifutshane laseRoma / laseYurophu, elihlala nam ukusukela ukuba lalineenyanga ezimbini ubudala,
    Ukusukela ukuba wajika i-6 ndinike iikati ezinethutyana ikhaya de ndibafumane ikhaya elisisigxina,
    Ngamanye amagama, bahlala nam ubuninzi benyanga eyi-1, i-4 yayingamabhinqa kwaye i-2 yayingamadoda.
    Nanini na xa ndilandela umthetho olandelwayo ochazwe kweli nqaku, intlalontle yenzekile ubuninzi beentsuku ezili-10 kwaye ukusukela ngoko ukuya phambili baba ngabahlobo bokungcakaza, kanye ngeentsuku ezi-4 babesele bengabahlobo, kodwa ikati yam iyaqhubeka nokubarhwebeshela ngokungathandekiyo kwabambalwa iintsuku ezingaphezulu.
    Xa besiya kwikhaya labo lokugqibela, intliziyo yakhe iyophuka, ubakhangela kuyo yonke indawo, "undibuza" ngabo.
    Ngoku ndinekatana elahlekileyo efike kwiintsuku ezi-3 ezidlulileyo, ndambeka ebalkoni kwaye bobabini bayanukelana phantsi komnyango kwaye bayabonakala kwiglasi, njengoko ehlala emrhona ... kodwa ndaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba Wayonwabile, kuba uyazi ukuba kwiintsuku ezimbalwa uya kuba nomnye umhlobo aza kuluma naye, akhabe, abambe yonke indawo, njl.
    Ndicinga ukuba ngeli xesha ndiza kuhlala nomphathi omtsha.

    Phendula xavier
         UMonica sanchez sitsho
      yenzayo 9 iminyaka

      Ngokuqinisekileyo uzakumonwabisa kakhulu 🙂

      Phendula uMonica Sanchez