Kukho abantu abaninzi abacinga ukuba iikati zizilwanyana ezihlala zodwa., kwaye abanabuhlobo. Kodwa inyani yahlukile kancinane kwezi nkolelo. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba iikati zinokubonakala zizimele ngakumbi xa zithelekiswa nezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya, ezinjengezinja, azizodwa ngokupheleleyo. Kwilizwe lendalo, iikati zinokwenza iikholoni ukuze ziphile, zisebenzisana kunye, ukwabelana ngeendawo kunye nokuba ngummandla kodwa zibonisa isimo sengqondo esicacileyo kumaqabane abo. Oku kuphelisa inkolelo yokuba abahlali.
Unxibelelwano lokuqala lwasentlalweni lusekwe nomama wakhe, onoxanduva lokuyinika uthando, imfudumalo nenkuselo, njengabo bonke oomama abancancisayo. Olu nxibelelwano luyimfuneko kuphuhliso lwabo lwentlalo. Njengoko i-kitten ikhula, iyayeka ukuxhomekeka kumama wayo yonke into, kodwa ubudlelwane beemvakalelo buhlala buhlala. Kwanakwiimeko zasekhaya apho umama nomntwana behlala kunye ubomi babo bonke, olu manyano lusekho. Iikati ezizalelwe kwindawo esempilweni yekhaya zibonisa ubudlelwane obuqhubekayo bothando kunye nentlonipho kumkhathaleli wazo ongumntu, ngokufanayo naleyo beziza kuba nayo nonina.
Ikati kwiikholoni: i-social dynamic dynamic
Umzekelo ocacileyo wokuhlalisana kweekati kwenzeka kwiikholoni. I iikoloni zekati ezilahlekileyo Zizinto ezintsonkothileyo zentlalo apho iimazi zidibana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Nangona bengaxhomekekanga omnye komnye ukuzingela, iibhondi abazenzayo kunye nomnye zibavumela ukuba bazikhusele kwiisongelo zangaphandle kunye nokwabelana ngezibonelelo.
Kwezi koloni, iikati zibonisa ulawulo lwentlalo olungekho ngqongqo njengamaqela ezinja, kodwa kukho abalawuli nabangaphantsi. I iikati ezilawulayo Bahlala bethatha ulawulo lwezona zixhobo zingcono, ezifana nokufikelela ekutyeni nakwindawo yokuhlala, ngelixa abaphantsi beyamkela indawo yabo kwisakhiwo sentlalo. Nangona iikati zingabazingeli bodwa, ubudlelwane phakathi kwamathanga abuvelanga ngamabona-ndenzile, kodwa kufuneka uhlengahlengise kwiindawo zasezidolophini apho banyanzelwa ukuba bahlale nezinye iikati. Olu hlengahlengiso lubonisa ukuba iikati zine ukuguquguquka kwezentlalo inkulu kakhulu kunaleyo ibisenziwa kubo ngokwesiko.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwekati kunye nomntu
Njengamaqela eekati ezilahlekileyo, iimazi zasekhaya ziba nolwalamano olusenyongweni nabantu. Akumangalisi ukuba iikati kwikholoni zigcina "ukulingana nokulingana" ubudlelwane. nabagcini babo. Basenokungasondeli ngokukhawuleza ukuba bafunjwe, kodwa bayayixabisa kwaye bade bafune inkampani yabantu malunga nokutya nokhuseleko. Kwimeko yasekhaya, ezi kati zibona abantu njenge ababoneleli ngezixhobo kunye nomthombo wokhuseleko.
Kukho izifundo ezibonisa ukuba iikati zasekhaya ziyakwazi ukudibanisa nabanini bazo. Nangona ukuzimela ngakumbi kunezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya, iikati ziyonwabela inkampani yabantu kwaye "zinokuxubha" kungekuphela nje ukuphawula indawo, kodwa njengophawu lothando. Isibakala sokuba bayakuhlikihla okanye bakukukhotha asinto nje yethuku; Yindlela yabo yokubonisa ukuba bakubona njengenxalenye yeqela labo loluntu elikhuselekileyo nelizinzileyo.
Ukwenziwa kwasekhaya kunye nefuthe lako kwintlalontle yeenkazana
Ukutyhubela iminyaka, iikati ziye zadlula kwiinkqubo zasekhaya eziye zaguqula indlela yokuziphatha kwazo ebantwini. Ngoxa ukhokho wakhe, i ikati yasendle yaseAfrika, yayingamarhamncwa, iikati zanamhlanje ziye zafunda ukuphila nezinye iintlobo zazo kwanaphakathi kwabantu.
Le nkqubo yofuywa ekhaya ayizange ibe qatha njengakwimeko yezinja, kodwa ibe nefuthe elimandla kwizinja zazo. ukuziphatha kakuhle. Iikati ezikhulela kwindawo yomntu, ngakumbi ngexesha ixesha lokuqala lokuhlalisana (iiveki ezi-2-9 ubudala), baye batyekele ngakumbi ekufuneni ukunxibelelana nabantu. Ngeli xesha linzima, amantshontsho ekati afunda ukuyamkela intsebenziswano yabantu njengento entle. Ukuba bafumana unyango olufanelekileyo, la mava angaphambili amisela indlela abaziphatha ngayo kwixesha elizayo, ebenza babe nobuhlobo ngakumbi kwaye bangakrokreleki.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iikati ezingenakho ukudibana kwabantu ngeli xesha zihlala zibonisa ukuziphatha okukude, ukuzibamba okanye ukuba ndlongondlongo. Oku akuthethi ukuba abanako ukuhlakulela ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nabo babakhathalelayo, kodwa babo inkqubo yohlengahlengiso Kuya kucotha kwaye kuya kufuna umgudu owongezelelweyo kwicala lomnini.
Izijekulo zothando lweFeline: indlela yokuqonda iikati zethu
Iikati zineendlela zokuziphatha ezibonisa uthando lwazo ebantwini. Enye yezona zijekulo ezaziwayo yi hlikihla emilenzeni, nto leyo abaninzi abayichaza njengophawu lothando. Nangona kunjalo, le ndlela yokuziphatha inomsebenzi onzulu wentlalo: iikati zinevumba elimnandi elikhupha iipheromones, ezivumela ukuba zikuphawule njengenxalenye yosapho lwazo. Oku akupheleli nje ekubetheleleni imvakalelo yabo yokuba ngabathile kodwa kwakhona kubenza bazive benqabisekile.
- Omnye umqondiso ngu Ukucoca, esidibanisa nokuthuthuzela kunye nokuzonwabisa kwekati. Esi sandi luhlobo lonxibelelwano lwentlalo olubonisa ukuba ikati yakho iziva yonwabile kwaye ikhuselekile kwinkampani yakho. Nangona kunjalo, i-purring inokuba nezinye iintsingiselo, njengaxa ikati igula okanye igxininisekile kwaye isebenzise ukuzola.
- Uphawu olungaphantsi olucacileyo lothando kuxa ikati yakho parpadea lentamente ngakuwe. Esi senzo siyindlela yokubonisa ukuthembela, ekubeni ikati eziva ingakhuselekanga okanye isengozini ayinakuze ijonge kude kwinto eyibona njengesongelo. Ukuqhwanyaza okucothayo luhlobo lwe "feline kiss."
Ukuqonda ezi zijekulo kubalulekile ukuba a ubudlelwane obuyimpumelelo nenyama yethu. Okukhona sichitha ixesha elininzi sijonge indlela abaziphethe ngayo, kokukhona kuya kuba lula ngathi ukutolika oko bazama ukusixelela kona.
Iikati zinokuba nobudlelwane ngakumbi kunokuba sihlala sikholelwa. Nangona bedume ngokuzimeleyo, ukukwazi kwabo ukuseka ubudlelwane beemvakalelo kunye nezinye iikati kunye nabantu akunakuphikiswa. Njengalo naluphi na olunye ubudlelwane, undoqo kukuqonda iimpawu zabo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo ukubabonelela ngendawo efanelekileyo apho banokuchuma khona ekuhlaleni.