Ungayithintela njani ikati yam ekumkeni ekhaya? Lowo ngumbuzo thina sonke esiphila kunye nesilwanyana esizibuze wona amaxesha ngamaxesha. Kwaye kunjalo, nokuba sizinikele ixesha elingakanani kuye, nokuba simnika kangakanani uthando, ukwazi ukuba uza kumqhuba aphume ngomnyango kamsinya nje akuba enethuba, akunjalo?
Ewe, inyani kukuba ixhomekeke. Ngokwenyani ewe Sinokwenza izinto ezininzi ukwenza ukuba uboya buzive bekhululekile ngaphakathi endlwini kangangokuba abayi kuba nesidingo esinamandla sokuphuma ngaphandle, ke kuya kuba lula ukuyilawula. Awundikholelwa? Qhubeka ufunda, zama ezi ngcebiso kwaye uza kubona ukuba kungekudala uza kuqala ukubona utshintsho kubushushu bakho.
Uyenza njani ikati yakho ingafuni ukuphuma endlwini
Amakati (ngakumbi amadoda kunye nokuba angathathi hlangothi), anokuba nesidingo sokuphuma aye kuhlola umhlaba. Nangona ulandela ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo, unokufumanisa ukuba ngequbuliso, ikati yakho iya kufuna ukuhlala ekhaya kuba inayo yonke into eyifunayo.
Ubudlelwane
Amakati zizinto zentlalo ezifuna ukukhuthazwa kunye nokunxibelelana, ke ukuba ubonelela yonke le mihla, ngekhe baziva isidingo sokuphuma bayokuyikhangela. Chitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya yonke imihla, ubeke phambili uluhlu lwakho lwezinto oza kuzenza imihla ngemihla! Kukho imiqondiso enokukuxelela ukuba ikati lakho lililolo kakhulu:
- Ulandela ngokujikeleza indlu kwaye uhlala efuna ingqalelo
- Ukuziphatha gwenxa
- Chama kwizinto zakho njengophawu lokuba uyakugezela
- Ukuzilungisa okugqithisileyo
Rhoqo
Amakati, njengabantu, zizinto eziqhelekileyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto befuna iinkqubo kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla kwaye babe secaleni kwakho. Ukuvuka, ixesha lokutya, njl. Bayalithanda ikhaya labo kwaye ukuba indlela yabo yesiqhelo iyatshintsha, ikati yakho inokuziva inoxinzelelo okanye ixhala. Ukutshintsha iindlela kunye nokushiya ikati yakho yodwa ixesha elide kunokuba yinto engalunganga yokutshintsha amava kunye nokufumana indlela yokutshintsha ngokuya ngaphandle.
Mnike yonke into ayifunayo
Mnike umdlalo, uthando, ubuqabane, iindlela, ikati iqabane ukuba kunokwenzeka ... ikati yakho, ukuba iziva ikhululekile kwaye ivuselelekile ekhayeni lakho, ayisayi kuva sidingo sokushiya indlu. Ukongeza, ukumkhupha ngaphandle kukubeka umngcipheko kwinto embi eyenzeka kuye, enje ngengozi, umlo phakathi kweekati, ukugula, ukubethwa sisithuthi, njl.
Chitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nekati yakho
Ayifani into yokuba segumbini, wena uhleli kwisitulo esinengalo kunye nekati yakho phantsi, kunokuba nibe nobabini kwi-armchair okanye emgangathweni nisebenzisana. Kukho abantu abacinga ukuba ikati ayilufuni olu hlobo lokuqwalaselwa, ukuba izimele kakhulu kwaye ukonwaba kwanele ngokwako, kodwa ukucinga ukuba yimpazamo.
Ukuba awunxibelelani naye, ukuba awudlali naye kwaye ukuba awumniki uthando, asinakulindela ukuba afune ukuba nathi xa siziva sifuna njalo. Ke ngoko, ukuba sifuna ukuba yikati eyonwabileyo, kunye nokuhlala, kufuneka sichithe ixesha elininzi kangangoko sinako. Ukongeza, kufuneka sazi ukuba ngentambo elula okanye ibhola encinci bobabini kunye naye sinokuba nexesha elimnandi.
Lala naye
Ukulala nekati? Ewe ngoba kutheni? Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga neeparasites, iiklinikhi zezilwanyana kunye nevenkile zezilwanyana zithengisa i-antiparasitics eya kuphelisa zombini i-parasites zangaphandle (Amakhalane, iintakumbanjl njl) nangaphakathi (Umhlaba). Kwimeko apho unayo ukungalungelelani isilwanyana okanye ukuba uboya bugula, olona khetho luya kuba kukuthintela ukufika ebhedini yakho, kodwa kungenjalo ... ukulala nekati sisizathu esifanelekileyo sokuqinisa ubudlelwane.
Kwaye ikati echitha ubusuku nomntu wayo, bubushushu oziva uthandwa kakhulu. Ke awuzukufuna ukufuna uthando ngaphandle.
Mnike iqabane
Logama nje sinakho ukuyifumana, kwaye nje ukuba sinekati yokuhlalisana, kunokuba nomdla ukumnika iqabane lekati anokudlala nalo ngelixa sihambileyo, kutheni ungatsho njalo? Ke ukuba indlu iyonwabisa kabini. Mna ngokwam ndihlala nabantu abahlanu abathi, nangona benemvume yokuphuma phandle kuba sihlala kwindawo ethuleyo, bayaphuma ithutyana ekuseni kwaye enye emva kwemini, kwaye bachitha usuku lonke belele kwaye ukudlala.
Omncinci (uSasha, owazalwa ngo-2016, kunye no-Bicho, ngo-2017) abaphumi kwaphela, kwaye kuyonwabisa ukubona bebaleka. Xa abantu abadala befika (uKeisha oneminyaka esi-7 ubudala, uBenji oneminyaka emihlanu, kunye no-Susty oneminyaka eli-5 ubudala), benza njengentsapho emanyeneyo; phantse phantse. Inyani yile yokuba uSusty usesitratweni ngakumbi kunasekhaya, kwaye uzimele kakhulu. Kodwa nabanye babe nexesha elimnandi.
Ke, ngokwenene, ukuba ungayinyamekela ikati yesibini kwaye unomdla kusapho olukhulayo, ungathandabuzi. Ewe kunjalo, ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle ukusuka kusuku lokuqala, ndincoma ukuba ulandele iingcebiso zethu.
Khusela ikati yakho
Ukuba asizimiselanga kuyivumela ikati ukuba iphume iphele endlwini, nokuba kungenxa yokuba sihlala esixekweni okanye kwidolophu enabantu abaninzi, okanye kuba sinexhala lokuba kungenzeka into ethile kuyo, kuya kufuneka senze konke okusemandleni ukuyikhusela ekuphumeni kwayo . Yenziwa njani loo nto? Ukubeka umnatha kwiifestile esinokuyifumana siyithengisa kwiivenkile zemveliso yezilwanyana, kokubini ngokwasemzimbeni nakwi-Intanethi. Apha sikushiya nezinye izibonelelo ukuze ufumane ngokulula:
nayo, kufanele si ucango lwendlu luhlala luvaliwe, kuba nakukungakhathali okuncinci ubushushu bunokuphuma.
Ungayishiya ixesha elingakanani ikati yakho yodwa?
Isizathu esinye sokuba ikati ifuna ukushiya indlu kungenxa yokuba iyodwa kwaye ifuna ukuba namava. Ukongeza ekuthatheni ingqalelo ingcebiso esikunike yona apha ngasentla ukuba licebo elihle ukuba neqabane lekati lakho kwaye bagcine inkampani enye xa ungekho, nabo kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba kuya kufuneka ushiye ikati yakho lide kangakanani, kwimeko apho awunakuba nekati engaphezulu kwesinye nangasiphi na isizathu.
Nangona kuyinyani ukuba iikati ziyaziwa ngokuzimela, inyani kukuba bafuna inkampani kunye nothando ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuba bachitha ixesha elide bodwa ekhaya, banokonwaba kwaye babe noxinzelelo.… Kwaye sisizathu sokuba abanye babaleke okanye bafune ukushiya amakhaya.
Ngokwenene akukho nto yenzekayo kuba ubashiya usuku okanye iintsuku ezimbini bodwa ukuba baneemfuno zabo ezisisisekoKodwa ixesha elide banokuba nobunzima ngokweemvakalelo nangaphezulu ukuba abanaye umntu abadlala naye. Ikati yakho akufuneki ishiywe yodwa ixesha elide.
Ukuba uya eholideyini akufuneki ushiye ikati yakho yodwa ixesha elide kuba nangona ikwazi ukufikelela kwibhokisi yayo yenkunkuma, amanzi kunye nokutya, zikho ezinye izizathu ezinokwenza ukuba ifune ukushiya ikhaya ihlole umhlaba.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa usiya eholideyini?
Ukuba, umzekelo, ikati yakho inesifo esinganyangekiyo kwaye ifuna amayeza, eyona nto ilungileyo kukushiya ezandleni ezilungileyo, njengasesibhedlele sezilwanyana apho banokuyinika lonke ukhathalelo oludingayo.
Olunye uluvo kukuba ukuba uceba ukushiya indlu ixesha elide kwaye ikati yakho ayinasifo singanyangekiyo, ungaxelela abahlobo okanye abamelwane ukuba bame ngendlu yakho ukuze bahoye ikati yakho. Olona khetho lucinezelekileyo kwikati kwaye lunenzuzo enkulu kuwe. Unakho nokuhlawula umntu othembekileyo ohleli kwezilwanyana zasekhaya ukuba anyamekele ikati yakho ekhayeni lakho ngelixa ungekhoyo.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe.