Ungasondela njani kwikati eyoyikekayo? Lowo ngumbuzo olunge kakhulu, kuba ukuba siyenza ngokukhawuleza nangokubi, siza kususa isilwanyana kuthi ... okanye basihlasele. Ke ngoko, ukuba awunawo amava amaninzi ngala mafutha, ndincoma ukuba uqhubeke nokufunda eli nqaku.
Kuyo, ndiza kukunika iingcebiso ezininzi zokuthintela iingxaki ezivela (okanye, ubuncinci, ukunciphisa amathuba okuba zinokwenzeka). Ungaphoswa .
Ukwazi njani ukuba ikati iyoyika?
Nangona kubonakala ngathi lo mbuzo unempendulo elula kakhulu, enyanisweni akusoloko kulula. Ngapha koko, ngamanye amaxesha, kwezinye iimeko, ikati eyoyikisayo inokuba ndlongondlongo, ke ngekhe kube yinto engaqhelekanga ngathi ukubhideka. Ke, Ungazi njani ukuba iyothusa? Kuba siza kubona ezinye zezi ndlela zokuziphatha:
- Uya kuzimela phantsi kwayo nayiphi na into (ifanitshala, iimoto, njl.njl.), Okanye ngasemva kwento enkulu kunaye.
- Ukuba uyoyika abantu, gcina kude. Akayi kusondela kubo.
- Xa uzama ukusondela, iya kukujonga, kwaye inokukrokra kunye / okanye ukugquma.
- Kwiimeko ezigabadeleyo, apho aziva ekhathazwa, iinwele zakhe ziya kuma kwaye angahlasela.
Ungenza njani kuye?
Inyathelo ngenyathelo elihlala lisebenza kakuhle lilandelayo:
- Kuqala, bamba itoti yokutya kwekati emanzi kwaye xa ikati isentsimini yakho yombono, vula itoti kwaye uyibeke kufutshane naye kangangoko unakho (ukuba uyambona esenza intshukumo yokuphakama abaleke, thatha inyathelo buya uyeke i-can khona apho).
- Okwesibini, hlala mgama ukuba ikati ihlale kamnandi, kodwa ikude nokutya. Injongo ngeli xesha kukuba isilwanyana sidibanise into entle -i-can-nawe, kungoko kubalulekile ukuba ikubone.
- Okwesithathu, hamba ukuthatha iinkonkxa kuye yonke imihla, kwaye usondele kwaye usondele kuye. Lumka, unganyanzeli imeko: gcinani engqondweni ukuba xa enovalo, uya kubaleka.
- Okwesine, njengokuba iiveki kunye neenyanga zihamba, uyakuqaphela ukuba uziva ezolile ngakumbi kunye nawe. Kwaye kuyakubakho xa ungazama ukumbetha ngasemva xa esitya. Yenze njengaleyo ingayifuniyo into, kuyakubakho ixesha lokuba uyiphulule ngakumbi (okanye hayi. Kwaye, kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba kukho iikati ezingakuthandiyo ukudibana ngokwasemzimbeni. Oku akuthethi ukuba abanakho basithande Babonisa uxabiso kuthi ngezinye iindlela, njengokuvula kancinci nokucima amehlo, okanye ukulala ngomqolo kufutshane nalapho sikhona ngokomzekelo).
Ngaloo ndlela, kancane kancane, ngokunyamezela kunye nomonde, kwaye unako , uya kufezekisa iziphumo.
Molo, Enrique.
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