Umama iikati zasendle abanonopheli abakhulu, nokuba bayaqala ukufumana abantwana. Zizigcina zicocekile, zondlekile yaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, zilawulwa. Ngaphambi kokuba ahambe aye kuzingela, uwashiya kwikona efihlakeleyo esebenza njenge umqolomba, kude namarhamncwa anokubakho.
Noko ke, xa ezi zilwanyana zaqalisa ukuhlala nabantu emakhayeni ethu, kwafuneka ziziqhelanise neemeko. Ukuba ikati iyakhulelwa, iya kuchitha ixesha elininzi ikhangela eyona ndawo ilungileyo apho inokuzala khona kwaye, xa iyifumana, ayiyi kufuduka apho ngaphandle kokutya okanye ukuzikhulula. Nangona kunjalo, i iziganeko ezingalindelekanga ngamanye amaxesha ziyenzeka, kwaye kubalulekile ukwazi kutheni ikati ingala iintsana zayo.
Imiba ephambili ebangela ukuba ikati ibalahle abantwana bayo
Ukulahlwa kwekati kumantshontsho akhe kunokubangelwa zizinto ezininzi, ngokomzimba nangokweemvakalelo. Nangona kuqhelekile ukuba ikati inakekele abantwana bayo, kukho iimeko apho ayikwazi okanye ingafuni ukuyifeza le ndima. Ngezantsi, sichaza izizathu eziqhelekileyo.
Iingxaki zempilo kwinzala
Umama wekati unokubona ukuba kukho nawaphi na amantshontsho akhe azalwe ene- kugula o malformation. Le yinxalenye yethuku layo lokusinda, njengoko ikhetha ukujolisa ingqalelo yayo kwinzala ephilayo. Ukuba omnye wabancinci ubuthathaka okanye akunakwenzeka ukuba aphile, umama unokulandula ukukhusela abanye.
Uxinzelelo kunye nemeko engafanelekanga
Indawo enengxolo, eneziphazamiso ezininzi okanye ukuzola kancinci, kunokubangela ukuba ikati ibe namava uxhalaba y uxinzelelo. Oku kunokumenza aziphephe iintsana zakhe, ingakumbi ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba akanandawo ikhuselekileyo yokuzinyamekela. Ukumnika indawo yabucala nethe cwaka kubalulekile.
Iingxaki zempilo zikamama
Ukuba umama ufunyenwe ndiyagula, ndidiniwe okanye ubandezeleke idola Ngenxa yokuzala, usenokungabi nawo amandla okunyamekela iintsana zakhe. Iingxaki ezifana nosulelo lwebele (isifo sokukrala kwebele) okanye ukungondleki okuqatha nazo zizinto ezinokuchaphazela esi sigqibo.
Inkunkuma enkulu
Xa amantshontsho ekati amaninzi ezalwa (amahlanu nangaphezulu), unina usenokungakwazi ukuwanyamekela onke. Kwezi meko, unokugxila kwezona zinamandla kwaye ulahle ezona zibuthathaka. Le ndlela yokuziphatha, nangona isenokubonakala ikhohlakele kuthi, iphendula kumzamo wokuqinisekisa ukusinda koninzi lwenkunkuma.
Indlela yokuthintela kunye nokuphatha ukwaliwa
Kubalulekile ukuba abanini beekati bakhuthaze a indawo efanelekileyo kumama nenzala. Apha sikunikeza iingcebiso ezithile Ukuthintela ikati ukuba ingalahli abantwana bayo abancinci:
- Lungiselela indlwane kwangethuba: Beka iingubo ezicocekileyo okanye iitawuli kwindawo ezolileyo, ekhuselekileyo apho ikati inokuzala khona. Kuphephe ukutshintsha indawo ekhethwe nguye ngaphandle kokuba iyingozi.
- Kuphephe ukuphatha kakhulu: Kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala, nciphisa ukusebenzisana nabantwana. Ivumba lomntu kumantshontsho lekati linokubangela ukuba alahlwe ngumama.
- Zola ekhaya: Nciphisa ingxolo neendwendwe ngeli xesha, ekubeni ukuzola ngundoqo kumama osandul’ ukuzalwa.
- Isondlo esaneleyo: Qinisekisa ukuba ikati iyafikelela ekutyeni okusemgangathweni kunye namanzi amatsha ukugcina amandla ayo.
Yintoni enokuyenza ukuba ikati iyala iintsana zayo
Ukuba, ngaphandle kwemigudu yakho, ikati yakho yalile ezinye okanye zonke iikati zayo, kuya kufuneka uzinakekele. Apha sichaza indlela:
Ukondla ngebhotile
Amantshontsho ekati asandul’ ukuzalwa kufuneka atyiswe ngobisi ifomula ethile iikati, ezifumaneka kwiiklinikhi zonyango lwezilwanyana. Yondla iintsana zonke iiyure ezingama-2-3, kubandakanywa nobusuku, njengoko zixhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kuwe.
Nika ubushushu
Iikati azikwazi lawula ubushushu bomzimba wakho. Sebenzisa iingubo ezishushu okanye iibhotile zamanzi ashushu (ezisoloko zibhijelwe ngeetawuli ukunqanda ukutsha) ukuzigcina zishushu.
Ukuvuselela ukuchama kunye nokukhupha
Amantshontsho ekati kufuneka avuselelwe ukuze azikhulule. Sebenzisa a umqhaphu omanzi emanzini afudumeleyo kwaye uphulule ngobunono indawo yakho yangasese emva kokutya ngakunye.
ukubonisana nogqirha wezilwanyana
Ukuba intshontsho lekati libonisa iimpawu ze kugula o ubuthathaka obugqithisileyoMse kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza. Le ngcali iya kuba nako ukukunika ukuxilongwa kunye nezikhokelo eziyimfuneko zokuzinyamekela ngokufanelekileyo.
Umsebenzi wethu njengabakhathaleli kukuqwalasela, ukuqonda kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, singenelele ukuqinisekisa ukusinda kunye nokuphila kakuhle kwabantwana abancinci. Qiniseka ukuba unikela ingqalelo kubo bobabini umama kunye neentsana ukuchonga iingxaki ezinokubakho kwangethuba kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo. Ngomonde kunye nenkathalo, kunokwenzeka ukoyisa obu bunzima kwaye uhambise yonke inkunkuma phambili.