Yinyani: ikati esinayo ekhaya izikhuhla kuyo yonke into, i-trait of the ukuziphatha kwekati. Emilenzeni, kwifenitshala, kwizinto ezintsha (ingakumbi kuzo), kwi tyelela, kuyo yonke into engaphakathi kwendawo yayo. Kodwa kutheni iziphatha ngolu hlobo?
Ukuba uyabuza kutheni ikati yam izikhuhla kuyo yonke into, eNoti Gatos siza kukunika impendulo enokutshintsha indlela omjonga ngayo umhlobo wakho noqonda ngayo iikati zibonisa njani uthando.
Umcimbi wepheromones ...
Ikati sisilwanyana esithanda indawo. Hayi kakhulu, kakhulu. Yonke imihla into ayenzayo yile hlikihla yonke ukuze ubazise kulo lonke usapho kunye nabaphi na abanokuba ngabaqeshi abatsha ukuba "ungumnini" wekhaya. Ngokwenza oko, eyona nto ayenzayo kukushiya iipheromones zakhe, ezizizinto ezifumaneka kumchamo, ilindle, iipads, nasebusweni bakhe, ngakumbi kwi-cheekbones nasesilevini, kwaye eziluncedo. baqonde abaninizo.
Ezi zinto zisebenza njenge abathwali bomyalezo, kwaye zibonwa yi-Jacobson's Organ ebekwe emlonyeni wesilwanyana (yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha yenza ubuso obungaqhelekanga xa sizise isilwanyana esitsha esinoboya ekhaya, umzekelo). Emva kokubanjwa, umyalezo uthunyelwa kwi-amygdala kunye ne-hypothalamus, izakhiwo ezibini ezinxulumene nokuphendula ngokweemvakalelo kunye noncedo. yazi ukuba ikati yam iyandithanda.
Ukongeza kwizidlele kunye nesilevu, iikati zine amadlala ivumba ebunzi, ngeenxa zonke emilebeni, emazantsi omsila, kunye neepads. Xa bekhuhla kunye, bafaka iipheromones zobuso (ezifana nezo zinxulumene iqhina loluntu) eziguqula imo engqongileyo ibe “yindawo ekhuselekileyo”. Le miyalezo yemichiza inako ukuhlala iiyure kumphezulu, naxa ikati ingekho.
Kubizwa loo ntshukumo yokuvula umlomo kancinane xa useza ngamandla flehmen impendulo kwaye inceda "ukufunda" ngcono ulwazi lwekhemikhali. Ndiyabulela oku, abaphawuli kuphela, kodwa nabo fumana iimbekiselo zendawo kunye neemvakalelo ezizinzisa ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla.
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Imazi sisilwanyana esineemvakalelo. Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba ithanda ukuba nommandla wayo phantsi kolawulo, akuyonyani ukuba iyazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ngubani enokuthembela kuyo kwaye ingenako. Thina, njengabanyamekeli balo, sinoxanduva lwezi mvakalelo, ekubeni ibe sithi abagqibe ekubeni sibe nazo. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuchitha ixesha, yonke imihla. Mfuthanise, mwole, mwole, uthethe naye ngelizwi elithambileyo, kwaye umgcine ekunye naye.
Ukuba siyayenza, ngaphandle kokukunika ubunzima, Into esiza kuyiphumeza kukuba uyasithanda kwaye usibonise ngokusihlikihla emlenzeni, entloko kunye/okanye kwiingalo njengophawu lobuhlobo, intlonipho kunye nokuthembana.
Xa ikati ikunika "iimpundu zentloko” (ubunting) okanye ahlikihle ubuso bakhe kuwe, abelane ngevumba ukwenza a ivumba leqela: isiginitsha eqhelekileyo ethi "silusapho." Isenokuba yi-a umbuliso ohlangeneyo okunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuqinisa ibhondi, ngokucacileyo ngakumbi ukuba kukhatshwa yi-purring kunye nomzimba okhululekileyo.
Ezinye izizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuhlikihla
Cela ingqalelo yakho: Iikati ezininzi zifunda ukuba ukuzikhuhla imilenze kuzenza zikuphulule, zidlale okanye zitye. Yi ukuziphatha okufundileyo, kungekhona nje okwethuku.
Ndiyabulisa kwaye wamkelekile: Emva kokubuyela ekhaya, ivumba lakho langaphandle “ligquma” elakhe. Ngokukhuhla kuwe, ikati yakho idibanisa ivumba layo iqhelekile kwaye ithoba inqanaba layo lokulumkisa.
Ubushushu kwiikati: Xa ikati ingena e-estrus, inokubonisa ukuhlikihla ngakumbi kunye nevocalizations, ukufuna unxibelelwano. I-Neutering ikhusela iilitha ezingafunekiyo kwaye inciphisa uxinzelelo oluhambelanayo.
Indawo yendawo kunye nokuzinza ngokweemvakalelo: ukubeka iipheromones kwiikona kunye nefenitshala isebenza njenge "imephu yokunuka"ekunceda ukuba uhambe ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye uphinde uzole xa utshintsha ekhaya.
Unxibelelwano olubonakalayo nolubambekayo: Ukongeza kwiphunga, imikrwelo iyahamba amanqaku abonakalayo kunye nevumba lephedi. Ukuhlikihla, ukukrwempa, nokuxova yimiqondiso ephelelisanayo yonxibelelwano lobuhlobo lwentlalo kunye nommandla.
Uyakukhuhla kuwe kwaye aphephe
Idityanisiwe, ukuhlikihla kunye ne Ukucoca ngokuqhelekileyo ibonisa intlalontle kunye nokuzithembaNgamaxesha athile ikati isenokufuna ukuzithuthuzela, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukujonga umxholo: i-posture ekhululekile kunye nomsila obanjwe phezulu uqinisekisa ukuba ulungile.
Uyahlikihla aze alume: umdlalo okanye isilumkiso?
Ingaba juego (ukulunywa kancinci), overstimulation (uye waphathwa ngokwaneleyo) okanye ukuphuma kwakhe ithuku lokuzingelaUkuba ukuluma okuqatha kwenzeka, nciphisa ukuqina koqhagamshelwano kwaye uqondise ngokutsha ngeethoyi zodidi lommoba.
Uzikhathaza nini ngokukhuhla ngokugqithisileyo?
Ukuhlikihla kuqhelekile, kodwa ukuba kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza uzingise kakhulu kwaye ifike nezinye iimpawu, dibana nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana:
- Ukuthambeka kwentloko, ukuqhwanyaza okungaqhelekanga okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
- Utshintsho kumdla wokutya, unxano, ukunciphisa umzimba, ukugabha okanye urhudo.
- Iipeki, ukulahleka kweenwele okanye ukulungiswa ngokugqithiseleyo.
Izizathu ezinxulumeneyo ezinokwenzeka ziquka utywala, iintakumba, isifo sokukrala kwebele, iingxaki zemithambo-luvo okanye ukuphazamiseka hypersensitivity yekatiUvavanyo lobuchwephesha lulawula iintlungu okanye ukungakhululeki.
Indlela yokuphendula ukuqinisa ibhondi
- Makaqalise kunye nokuphelisa uqhagamshelwano; musa ukuyibamba.
- Indlela yomvuzo ngokuphululwa okuthambileyo ezidleleni nasesilevini.
- Iimpawu zentlonipho nqumama: iindlebe ngasemva, ukutyibilika komsila, ukushukuma kwesikhumba.
- Iyatyebisa imekobume ngezithuba zokukrwela, ukuphakama kunye nokudlala imihla ngemihla ukunciphisa uxinzelelo.
Ikati yakho ikhuhla kuwe, ifenitshala kunye nezinto a ulwimi lwekhemikhali nolwentlalontle Indibaniselwano yokumakisha ngobuhlobo, ukubulisa, ukufuna ingqalelo, kunye nokufuna ukhuseleko. Ukuqonda oku kunye nokuphendula ngentlonipho kwandisa impilo-ntle yabo kwaye kwenza ukuhlalisana kwakho kube noxolo kwaye kusondele.
