Kule mihla kulula ukufumana hayi enye, kodwa ezininzi iikati ezihlala esitratweni. Ezi zilwanyana zifunde ukuphila ngaphandle kobomi bomntu., ngamanye amaxesha ukwenza iikholoni ezincinci kunye nokuphepha ukudibanisa ngokuthe ngqo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuzange ube namava amabi kunye nathi yaye ukuba sisebenza ngomonde, banokukwamkela ubukho bethu baze babunandiphe.
Ke ngoko, siza kuchaza indlela yokukhulisa ikati yasendle. Ngale ndlela, kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuwe ukuba ube nolwalamano naye, njengoko ndicinga ukuba, luya kuba lukhetheke kakhulu. Yinkqubo ende, ecothayo efuna intlonipho ngexesha layo., kodwa ngokuzingisa, inkqubela ephawulekayo inokufunyanwa.
Yintoni ikati yasendle?
Ikati yasendle yikati leyo engazange inxibelelane ngokuthe ngqo nabantu; oko kukuthi, owazalelwa waza wakhulela esitratweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo kulula ukumahlula kumntu owayekhe waba nentsapho yabantu, ekubeni Uthe nje akukubona usondela, abaleke ayokuzimela.Nangona kunjalo, ngomonde omkhulu, ulwimi oluninzi lomzimba kunye nemivuzo eninzi onokuyifumana nxulumana kwaye ndikuthembe.
Kwakhona, ezininzi iikati zasendle bahlala kwiikoloni ezidla ngokubangelwa ukunqongophala kokuvala inzala. Kwiinkqubo zolawulo lokuziphatha (CES: ukubamba, ukuvala inzalo kunye nokukhululwa), abantu abangenelelayo bachongwa incam yendlebe esikiweyo ukwazi ukuba sele bevalwe inzala. Kungenxa yokuba ikati i-feral ayithethi ukuba inobudlova ngokwemvelo.: kuthetha ukuba akahlali nabantu.
Umahluko phakathi kwekati yeferal kunye nekati elahlekileyo
- Ikati yasendle okanye yasendle: ugwema ukudibana, akafuni ukucela ukutya, akafuni ukudibana kwamehlo kunye ugcina umgama wakhe.
- Ikati elahlekileyo (ilahlekile okanye ilahliwe): ngesiqhelo bonisa ukuzithemba okuthile, angasondela, acele ukutya ade ahlikihle kwizinto ezikufuphi.
Ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo iprofayile kunceda ukulungisa okulindelweyo malunga ukuhlalisana kwakhe. Iikati zabantu abadala zifuna ixesha elingakumbi kwaye, kwezinye iimeko, bafezekisa kuphela ukuhlalisana kwe-semi-socialized.
Ungenza njani kuye?
Ngenyathelo elicothayo, kwaye ungamjonganga ngqo emehlweni. Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba wonke umntu ophilayo, kubandakanya nabantu, banendawo yethu apho siziva silungile, sikhululekile kwaye sikhuselekile. Xa umntu esingamaziyo esondela kakhulu kuthi, into esiyenzayo kukushiya kude. Yiyo kanye le nto ikati eza kuyenza.
Ke ngoko, kufuneka sisebenzise ulwimi lomzimba. Mthi krwaqu, sondela kuye ngokuthe chu, kwaye umyeke ukuba uqalisa ukubonakala engakhululekanga. (o.k.t., ukuba sele eza kuhamba, okanye uyasigquma okanye uyasigquma) zizimbo zomzimba eziya kumnceda aqonde ukuba asithethi nto imbi ngaye. Ikwacetyiswa kakhulu umphathele iitoti zokutya okumanzi ukuzalisa i-feeder, ekubeni oku kuya kukhokelela ekugqibeleni kumnqweno wokutya ukoyisa uloyiko.
Kwenze ngolu hlobo ixesha elide njengoko kuthatha, ukusondela kancinci ngalo lonke ixesha. Kuza ixesha apho ungasondela kangangokuba umbambe ngasemva, njengomntu ongakhathali nganto. Mhlawumbi uya kumangaliswa ekuqaleni, kwaye mhlawumbi ukwesaba, kodwa uya kudlula;). Xa ubona ukuba nguye osondela kuwe, ngoko uya kuba ulufezekisile usukelo lwakho.
Meyise ngokutya
- Yenza inkqubo yeeshedyuli zesondlo.
- Beka ipleyiti umgama okhuselekileyo kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uyisondeze kuwe ngeentsuku ezilandelelanayo.
- Hlala uzolile, ngaphandle kokujonga okanye ukwenza iintshukumo ngesiquphe; uqaphela uthe cwaka.
- Xa unyamezele, nikela amabhaso aphezulu ukusuka esandleni ngaphandle kokunyanzelisa.
Mazise ilizwi lakho kunye nobukho bakho
- Thetha no ithoni ethambileyo nenobubele xa usitya okanye uphumle.
- Kuphephe ukothuka kunye nengxolo, gcina ukuqikelela kwiintshukumo zakho.
Sondela ngaphandle kokuchukumisa kwaye uqhubele phambili kuqhagamshelwano lokuqala
- Vumela makabe nguye osondeza impumlo yakhe esandleni sakho ukujoja.
- Iqala nge uphulula amafutshane ngasemva okanye kwisiseko sentamo ukuba iyamkelwa.
- Ukuba ubona iimpawu zoxinzelelo (ukuncwina, umsila oqinileyo, iindlebe ezithe tyaba), thatha inyathelo emva ngeentsuku ezininzi.
Kubalulekile: ungaze umbone okanye zama ukuyibamba ngesiqupheUxinzelelo olubukhali lunokubangela ukusabela kokuzikhusela, ukukrwela okanye ukuluma, kwaye, kwiimeko ezinzima, ukuwohloka kweemvakalelo. Khumbula ukuba umkrwelo onzulu unokosuleleka kwaye ukuluma kunokuba yingozi; thatha ngononophelo kwaye udibane nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana ukuba unayo nayiphi na inkxalabo ngempilo.
Impilo noKhuseleko: UGqirha wezilwanyana, aMagonyo, kunye ne-CES
- Gqibezela uhlolo lwezilwanyana: Uvavanyo ngokubanzi, ukuphelisa iintshulube ngaphakathi nangaphandle.
- Ugonyo lwangoku: isikhokelo esicetyiswayo se mkhusele kunye nezinye izilwanyana Ekhaya.
- Uvavanyo lwezifo eziqhelekileyo zeekati ngokwemiqathango yonyango lwezilwanyana.
- Ukuvalwa: isitshixo kwintlalontle yakho nakwi ulawulo lwekholoni yokuziphatha (inkqubo yeCES). Indlebe enqamlekileyo ibonisa ukungenelela.
- Uvalelo lokuqala Ukuba uhlala nezilwanyana zasekhaya ezininzi, ezineendawo ezahlukeneyo zokutya, amanzi kunye nebhokisi yenkunkuma.
Sebenza i impilo inxalenye Ukususela ekuqaleni ukunciphisa umngcipheko kwimpilo yakho kunye neyezilwanyana zakho zasekhaya kwaye iququzelela ukuhlalisana okukhuselekileyo.
Ngaba ungahlala endlwini?
AyikhuthazwaIkati yasendle iqhele ukuhlala esitratweni. Injalo, kwaye ifuna ukuhlala, ikhululekile ngaloo ndlela. Kuphela ukuba imbuna kakhulu umntu unokuzama ukuyizisa ekhaya ukuze ihlale nentsapho yabantu, kodwa iyakuhlala ikwazi ukufikelela ngaphandle.
Okwangoku, kukho ama-nuances afanelekileyo: iminyaka ikati kunye nobuntu babe nempembelelo eninzi. Iikittens kunye nabaselula banendawo eninzi yokuziqhelanisa, ngelixa Abantu abadala banokufikelela kwintlalontle oko kuvumela ukuhlalisana ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuyizama, lungiselela a indawo ethe cwaka nengabalulekanga eneendawo zokuzifihla, izithuba zokukrwela, ibhokisi yenkunkuma, amanzi nokutya, nokuthintela ukufikelela kwezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya ekuqaleni.
Iimpawu zenkqubela eziluncedo: yidla phambi kwakho, uyaqhwanyaza kancinane xa ejonge kuwe, ulala phantsi ekhululekile inzipho zakhe zijonge kwelinye icala, wamkele imivumbo emfutshane aze abuye ukuze afumane okungakumbi. Ukusilela ngamaxesha athile kuqhelekile; lungisa isantya kwaye ubuyele kwisinyathelo sangaphambili.
Ukuba emva kwexesha elifanelekileyo akukho nkqubela phambili kwaye ikati ibonisa ukungonwabi okuzingileyo ngaphakathi, ngoncedo lweendawo zokukhusela okanye oogqirha bezilwanyana, bavavanya ukubuyela kwayo okulawulwayo kwikholoni phantsi kwe-CES kwaye iyaqhubeka ukuyinceda ngaphandle ngokutya okuqhelekileyo kunye nendawo yokuhlala yemozulu. Hlonipha impilo-ntle yabo ngaphezu kweminqweno yethu Ihlala isesona sigqibo silungileyo.
Olu hambo alukho mgca. Ngovelwano, ukunyamezela, kunye nolungelelwaniso neengcali, ukusuka ekungathembani ukuya kwibhondi Inokwenzeka. Nokuba isiphumo singumgama omde kodwa ubudlelwane obuhle, Kwikati kuthetha ukhuseleko, impilo kunye noxinzelelo oluncinci, kunye nawe, ulwaneliseko lokuba benze umahluko wokwenene ebomini babo.