Siphila kwihlabathi apho, ngelishwa, baninzi, abantu abaninzi abashiya iikati zabo. Nokuba kungenxa yokuba behamba okanye kuba bengafuni ukubakhathalela kwakhona, iindawo zokuhlala izilwanyana zihlala zigcwele iifriya ezixabisekileyo eziyifunayo lusapho olubakhathaleleyo njengoko kufanelekile.
Ukuba ucinga ngokwandisa usapho lwakho kwaye ungathanda ukwazi ukuba ungayifumana nini ikati, funda ukuze ufumane leliphi elona xesha lilungileyo lokuthatha uboya bangene ekhayeni lakho.
Izinto ekufuneka uzenzile ngaphambi kokwamkela
Njengokuba uthanda iikati, kubaluleke kakhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba, ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo, wenze uthotho lwezinto ukuze kuthi, xa ixesha lifika, uboya obutsha bube ngumthombo wovuyo kubo bonke:
- Thetha nawo onke amalungu osapho lwakhoHlanganani nithethe ngayo, nibone ukuba ucinga ntoni ngoluvo. Ukuzisa isilwanyana endlwini apho kukho umntu ongazithandiyo ezinoboya akusoloko kuhamba kakuhle.
- Cwangcisa imida kwasekuqaleniPhambi kokuba ikati ibe sekhaya, usapho lonke kufuneka luvumelane malunga nokuba luyivumele ukuba ingene esofeni okanye ilale nomntu. Imfundo yekati iya kuwela kubantu abadala, kodwa nabantwana kufuneka benze into yabo ukuze bangabhidanisi isilwanyana.
- Thenga yonke into oyifunayoXa wonke umntu evumile ukuba lixesha lokukhulisa usapho, iya kuba lixesha lokuya kuthenga. Ilungu elitsha liza kudinga isondli kunye nokusela, iscraper, iithoyi, ibhedi kunye netreyi yenkunkuma, kunye nokutya okungenazinkozo, amanzi acocekileyo acocekileyo isanti yeekati.
Uyifumana nini ikati?
Xa yonke into ilungile ekhaya, iya kuba lixesha lokuya kufumana ikati. Kodwa ke, kungcono, ukwamkela ikati okanye ikati yabantu abadala? Inyani yile yokuba ixhomekeke. Ukuba sele kukho izilwanyana ekhaya, eyona nto intle ukuyenza kukuthatha ikatana njengoko kuya kubiza imali encinci ukuziqhelanisa nayo.
Ngoku, ukuba akusekho furry kwaye usapho luzolile (kwaye lufuna ukuqhubeka lube njalo), kungcono ukhethe ikati yabantu abadala, kuba inesimilo esenziwe kwaye ayizukuchitha usuku lijikeleza, kodwa kunokuba ucela ukutofwa.
Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziluncedo kuwe.