Kukho abo bacinga ukuba ukuba nekati enye kungaphezulu kokwaneleyo, kwaye kunjalo. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukho abantu abangakhathazeki ngokuba ngaphezulu kwesinye, okanye ngaphezulu kwesibini, okanye ... ewe, ukuphela koku kubalwa kukuwe, kuba nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuba ungagcina. Akufuneki sizise ikati elitsha ekhaya ngenxa yentlungu, kodwa kunoko kubalulekile ukuba sicinge malunga nokuba singakwazi na ukuyinyamekela ngokuchanekileyo.
Kubo bonke abo bacinga ube nekati yesithathu okanye nangaphezulu, ziphephe izigqibo ezityhutyhayo ezifana nika iikati njengeziphoEmva koko ndiza kukunika iingcebiso ukuze ukuhlala kunye kube mnandi kuwo onke amalungu osapho (kwaye hayi nje inyamakazi).
Into yokuqala yokucinga ngayo kukuba iikati zizilwanyana ezihlala kakhulu, kwaye xa kufika ikati elitsha baya kukuxelela kwangoko. Siza kubona indlela Uzikhuhla kuyo yonke into acinga ukuba yeyakhe: ibhedi, iindonga, iingcango, ... Le yinto yabo yendalo, kwaye kufuneka sibayeke bayenze, njengoko ingeyongxaki. Nangona kunjalo, zikhona iikati ezihlala zifumana lonke uhoyo lomntu obakhathaleleyo kwaye, ukuba babelane ngothando olo, banokuqala bachame kwitreyi okanye babonakalise Ubundlongondlongo kwilungu elitsha. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, oku kulandelayo kuyacetyiswa kakhulu:
- Beka itreyi yenkunkuma kwikati nganye, susa isitulo kunye nomchamo yonke imihla, kwaye uyicoce kube kanye ngeveki ubuncinci. Ukuba uneekati, kukhethwa ukuba ube netreyi eyongezelelweyo.
- Xa iikati ziyokuzikhulula kwigumbi lokuhlambela labucala banokuziva bengakhuselekanga kakhulu njengoko bengenako ukuzikhusela. Kule nto, kubalulekile ukwenza usapho, kokubini umntu kunye nesini, bakuqonde oko ikati akufuneki iphazanyiswe ngaloo mizuzu.
- Chitha ixesha kunye nabo: dlala imidlalo, bayeke babukele iTV kunye nawe, okanye ulale ecaleni kwakho ngelixa ufunda incwadi.
- Okokugqibela, ukuba ubona ukuba kukho inkazana eziva ingakhululekanga nenye kwaye awazi ukuba wenze ntoni ukuze ivisisane, ungathandabuzi ukusebenzisa iimveliso ezineepheromones okanye dibana nengcali yeendlela zokuziphatha.
Umfanekiso - xosema
Ikati nganye yahlukile, kwaye nganye kuzo, ngomonde omncinci kunye nothando oluninzi wonke umntu uya kuvalana.
Ukuhambelana, ubudala, isini kunye nobuntu
Ukukhetha iqabane lakho elitsha kakuhle kunciphisa kakhulu iingxabano. Iikati ezikwiminyaka efanayo zidla ngokuba nazo iimfuno ezifanayo kunye namanqanaba okudlala, nto leyo eyenza kube lula ukuba baqondane. Indibaniselwano yesini iyasebenza macala onke nje bavalwe inzala, ecutha umgama phakathi kwentlalo kunye noxinzelelo. Ukuba ucinga iikati ezimbini zamadoda ziyavana, funda malunga nentshayelelo ethile kunye nezicwangciso zokulawula uluntu. Okubaluleke ngakumbi kunokwabelana ngesondo ubushushuIkati esebenzayo kwaye ezithembileyo ifaneleka ngcono kuleyo iguqukayo, ngelixa ezolileyo iyakuxabisa iqabane elizolileyo. Amaqhina angaphambili okanye ukuzalana (abantakwabo okanye iikati ezihlalisanayo) zidla ngokuthanda ukuziphatha kakuhle.
Uphononongo malunga nentlalontle yeenkazana lubonisa ukuba iikati ezininzi ziyonwabile inkampani yohlobo lwayo Ukuba okusingqongileyo kunye nentshayelelo ifanelekile. Ukuba ikati yakho ineentloni kakhulu okanye inamava amabi, cwangcisa intshayelelo ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ucinge ngenkxaso yobungcali; khumbula ukuba iikati zineemvakalelo kunye nokusabela ekuphathweni komntu.
Izixhobo kunye nommandla wokuphepha ungquzulwano
Umgaqo osebenzayo kumakhaya aneekati ezininzi kukubonelela ngezibonelelo iphindiwe kwaye isasazwe indlu yonke. Iibhokisi zenkunkuma: ngokufanelekileyo enye ngekati + enye eyongezelelweyo, ibekwe kwi indawo ezolileyo nezahlukeneyo. Abondlayo kunye nabankcenkceshela: izikhululo ezininzi, ngaphandle kokubanyanzela ukuba batye kunye. Yongeza imikhuhla ethe nkqo kunye nethe tyaba, iibhedi, imiqolomba kunye neeshelufa okanye imithi yokudala iindawo eziphezulu kunye neendlela zokuphuma.
Ikhaya akufuneki libe likhulu, kodwa libalulekile yahlula intsimi: Ukuba kukho iikati ezininzi, qinisekisa ukuba zininzi iindawo ezisebenzayo njengezilwanyana (ukuphumla, ukudlala, ukuzilungisa), ukuze bakwazi kuphetshwe ngaphandle kongquzulwano. Khawuqwalasele le ukunyibilika kwemali kunye nexesha: Kuya kubakho ukutya kabini, isanti, ukuhlolwa kunye ukunyamekela ikati, ngaphezu kokunikela ingqalelo yomntu ngamnye kwikati nganye.
Ukucocwa ngokucokisekileyo kwebhokisi yenkunkuma kunye ne ukugcinwa kwesiqhelo kwezibonelelo ukunciphisa ukumakisha kunye nokuxhalaba. Ukuba umchamo ubonakala ngaphandle kwebhokisi yenkunkuma, qala ukhuphe izizathu zonyango kugqirha wakho wezilwanyana (buza malunga Zeziphi izifo ezinokusasazwa ziikati?) kwaye khangela i ukuhanjiswa kwezixhobo.
Unikezelo oluqhubela phambili: ukusuka kwivumba ukuya kubudlelwane
Inkqubo yokwazisa isebenza ngcono ukuba uqhubeka izigaba ezimfutshane nezilawulwayo. Qala ngevumba: tshintshisa ngobunono iitawuli ezikhuhlwe ezidleleni yekati nganye kunye namagumbi atshintshanayo ukuze bobabini baphonononge ivumba lomnye ngaphandle koqhagamshelwano oluthe ngqo.
Qhubeka kunye imibono ekhuselekileyo: isithintelo sabantwana, i-gap okanye i-carrier ezinzileyo kwiiseshoni ezimfutshane apho umvuzo uzolile ngokuphathwa okanye ukutya okumanzi kuphela xa ulwimi lomzimba lukhululekile (ukuqhwanyaza okucothayo, umzimba okhululekileyo, ukujonga kuthintelwe). Ukuba kukho ukuncwina okukhulu, ukubetheka kwimivalo, okanye ukuzama ukuhlasela, iseshoni iyaphela kwaye uzame kwakhona kamva.
Xa bobabini bebonisa imiqondiso yobuhlobo okanye engathathi hlangothi, vula umqobo ngaphandle kokunyanzelisa imigama. Ziphephe bathathe ngexesha isoyikiso songquzulwano ukuthintela ubundlongondlongo obuqondiswe ngokutsha. Ekuleqeni, uphazamisa nge ingxolo ethambileyo okanye abeke into phakathi kwabo, engayi kohlwaywa.
Las iipheromones zekati Uxinzelelo lwezendalo lunokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo ngexesha lenkqubo, kunye nokudlala imihla ngemihla edibeneyo (iibhiya, iisekethe) iziteshi zamandla kwaye zikhuthaza. unxulumano olwakhayoAkukho nani limiselweyo leentsuku: isitshixo kukuvula amanyathelo kuphela xa i unxibelelwano phakathi kweekati babonise ukuba balungile.
Iimpawu zoxinzelelo, ulawulo, kunye nexesha lokucela uncedo
Qwalasela iimpawu ezifana ukuzifihla okuzingisileyo, ukufutha nokubhomboloza rhoqo, ukuphawula okanye ukuchama ngaphandle, ukunciphisa umdla wokutya okanye ukuzilungisa kakhulu. Kwimizi yeekati ezininzi, umngcipheko unokunyuka umthwalo woxinzelelo lomzimba, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba kuqiniswe ukuqikelelwa (ukutya kunye neenkqubo zokudlala), phinda-phinda oovimba kwaye unikeze ngobude obungakumbi kunye nokukhethwa kwendawo yokufihla.
Ziphephe isohlwayo. Beka phambili i ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo yendlela yokuziphatha ezolileyo, yohlukana okwexeshana ukuba kukho ukunyuka kwaye iphinde ingeniswe ngesantya esisezantsi. Ukuba kuvela ukwenzakala, kukho ukuhlaselwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo okanye ukungonwabi akuphucuki, dibana nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana kwaye a i-ethologist yeklinikhi ukuyila isicwangciso somntu esithathela ingqalelo impilo, okusingqongileyo kunye nokufunda.
Ngokukhetha iqabane elifanelekileyo, izibonelelo ezabiwe kakuhle, isingeniso esicothayo kunye nokuzinikela kwakho kwansuku zonke, ezininzi iikati zifunda ukunyamezelana kwaye kaninzi ukubophaUmonde, uthando, kunye nokuqwalaselwa ngononophelo ngamahlakani akho alungileyo kwikhaya elihambelanayo elineekati ezintathu okanye ngaphezulu.
