Ukwamkela ikati kunokuba sesinye sezigqibo ezinomvuzo ebomini bakho. Nangona kunjalo, umbuzo obalulekileyo ophakamayo: Yeyiphi iminyaka efanelekileyo yokwamkela ikati? Impendulo ayilula, kuba ixhomekeke kwizinto ezahlukeneyo ezifana nemekobume yentsapho, ixesha elikhoyo kunye neempawu zemazi. Apha sikubonelela ngesikhokelo esipheleleyo sokukunceda wenze esona sigqibo silungileyo.
Phambi kokwamkela ikati
Ikati ayiyonto yokudlala okanye ifashoni; Yinto ephilayo eya kuxhomekeka kuwe ukuba yanelise iimfuno zayo. iimfuno ezisisiseko y ngokweemvakalelo ubomi bakhe bonke. Ubomi bekati obulindelekileyo bunokufikelela kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuba ikhathalelwe kakuhle, nto leyo ethetha ukuzibophelela kwexesha elide.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha umntwana, qiniseka ukuba yonke intsapho iyavuma. Yena imvume Kubalulekile ukuphepha iingxabano ezizayo okanye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ikati ishiywe. Izigqibo ezingxamisekileyo, ezifana nokwamkela ikati njenge Isipho seKrisimesi, ngokuqhelekileyo baphelela kwiindawo zokukhusela okanye, kwimeko embi kakhulu, kunye nesilwanyana esishiywe esitratweni.
Ngaphezu koko, cinga nge propósito ukwamkelwa. Ikati akufunekanga ijongwe njengento ethandabuzekayo. Ukuba unabantwana, kubalulekile ukubacacisela ngoxanduva lokunyamekela isilwanyana. Ngaphandle koko, ukuhlalisana kunokuba nzima kwilungu elitsha kunye nosapho.
Ikati ingamkelwa xa ineminyaka emingaphi?
Sakuba senziwe isigqibo sokwamkelwa komntwana, umbuzo uvela malunga noku ubudala obufanelekileyo yekati. Kubalulekile ukwazi umahluko kukhathalelo nokuziphatha phakathi a ikati encinci kunye ikati endala ukwenza isigqibo esinolwazi.
Kitten
Ukwamkela ikati inokuba ngamava amnandi, kodwa ikwayi-a umceli mngeni. Amantshontsho ekati adlamke kakhulu kwaye anomdla, nto leyo ethetha ukuba aya kufuna ukuhoywa rhoqo ukuze aphephe iingozi. Ukongeza, eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokubafundisa.
Linokwahlulwa nini intshontsho lekati kunina? Iingcali zincoma ukulinda de i-kitten ibe ubuncinane iiveki ezi-8 ubudala, ngokufanelekileyo iiveki ezili-12. Ngeli xesha, ikati iyafunda izakhono zentlalo Okubaluleke kakhulu, njengokunxibelelana ngaphandle kokuluma okanye ukukrwela, enkosi kunina kunye nabalingane bakhe.
Intshontsho lekati elikhule lahlukana nonina kwangethuba linokuba neengxaki zokuziphatha, njenge Ubundlongondlongo o uloyiko olugqithisileyo. Ukongezelela, kwiiveki zokuqala, ubisi lwebele lubalulekile ukuqinisa amajoni akho omzimba.
Kwiimeko ezikhethekileyo, ezifana nokulahlwa ngumama, kunokwenzeka ukuba uthathe ikati phambi kweeveki ezisi-8. Kule meko, kufuneka unakekele ukuyondla ngefomula kwaye ulandele ngokungqongqo imiyalelo yogqirha wezilwanyana.
Ikati yabantu abadala
Ukwamkela ikati ekhulileyo nayo inako ezintle. Nangona abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ikati endala kunzima ukuziqhelanisa nayo, inyaniso inokuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Iikati ezindala zidla ngokuzola kwaye zine ubuntu obuchaziweyo, ikwenza kube lula ukuyibona ukuba iya kungena ekhayeni lakho.
Ukongeza, ngokuthatha ikati endala, unikezela nge ithuba lesibini kwisilwanyana ekusenokwenzeka ukuba sidlule kumava anzima njengokulahlwa. Ngomonde kunye nothando, ikati endala inokuba nothando kwaye ibe nobudlelwane njengekati.
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokwamkela ikati ethe yaxhatshazwa, kubalulekile ukuyinika indawo ngoxolo. Kuphephe ingxolo enkulu kunye nokushukuma ngequbuliso kwiiveki zokuqala, kumvumela ukuba aziqhelanise nekhaya lakhe elitsha ngesantya sakhe.
Impembelelo yokulunyulwa kukwamkelwa
El kulunyulwa Lixesha elibalulekileyo ekukhuleni kwekati. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala, amakati axhomekeke ngokupheleleyo ubisi lwebele ukufumana izondlo eziyimfuneko. Ukulumla kuqala malunga neeveki ezi-4 ubudala, xa amantshontsho eqala ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo, kodwa akagqibi de abe ziiveki ezisi-8 nangaphezulu.
Ukususela kwiiveki ezisi-8 ukuya phambili, amantshontsho akulungele ukuthathwa, njengoko ayakwazi ukuzondla kwaye afunde iindlela zokuziphatha ezisisiseko. Nangona kunjalo, ukubashiya nonina de kube ziiveki ezili-12 kunokuphucula kakhulu ukuhlalisana kwabo.
Ukhathalelo olusisiseko emva kokwamkelwa
Nokuba uthatha isigqibo sokwamkela ikati okanye ikati yabantu abadala, ziqinisekile ukhathalelo olusisiseko ukuba kufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo ukuqinisekisa impilo-ntle yabo.
- Ndwendwela ugqirha wezilwanyana: Kubalulekile ukusa ilungu elitsha kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze lixilongwe ngokupheleleyo, lichithwe iintshulube kunye nogonyo. Kananjalo baya kukucebisa ngesondlo kunye nenkathalo ethile.
- Indawo ekhuselekileyo: Nika indawo ezolileyo apho ikati yakho inokulungelelanisa. Kubandakanya ibhedi etofotofo, ukutya, amanzi kunye ne-litter tray.
- Ixesha kunye nomonde: Ukuziqhelanisa kunokuthatha ixesha. Yiba nomonde kwaye uhloniphe isantya sekati yakho ukuze azive ekhululekile kwikhaya lakhe elitsha.
Ukwamkela ikati ngamava azele luthando nokufunda. Nokuba likati elithandekayo okanye ikati endala elumkileyo, zombini ziya kukunika amaxesha ongalibalekiyo kunye nobuhlobo obungenamiqathango. Ukwenza esi sigqibo ngengqondo kubalulekile ekwakhiweni kobudlelwane obuphilileyo nobuhlala buhlala nesilwanyana sakho esitsha.
Molo Agustin.
Akukho minyaka ibekiweyo. Xa umntu enokukhathalela ikati, xa benokuthatha uxanduva lokujongana nenkcitho ebandakanya oko, iya kuba ngumzuzu wokuyamkela.
A ubingelele.
Baye bandinika uboya bam obu-3 okanye obu-4 kwiiveki ezidlulileyo khange ndimthabathe wamamkela, wayeyikati eyonwabileyo wasinika uthando oluninzi Wahlala iminyaka eli-14 kunye nathi kwiiveki ezi-2 ezidlulileyo Wasweleka sishiywa ziikati. Uthando oluninzi ewe siyayazi indlela yokufundisa kufuneka sinyamezele kakhulu, imibuliso evela kwi-los angeles ca, usa
Molo Rudy.
Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwekati yakho
Njengoko usitsho, banika uthando kunye nenkampani eninzi kwaye xa bemka ... kubi kakhulu.
Ininzi yokukhuthaza.
Ikati yam yaphila iminyaka eli-16, zizilwanyana ezizimeleyo kwaye zinothando kakhulu, zifunda ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, kwimeko yam ndimenze ukuba azonakalise ngokwam, kuba qho xa ndiphakama ndithanda ukuya emsebenzini ndimnika isidlo sakusasa ipleyiti elungileyo inyama okanye inkukhu kwaye ngempela veki wenza ngathi utya isidlo sakusasa ngeloxesha. Ngelishwa usweleke enesifo seswekile. Ikati lokugqibela lahlala kuphela iinyanga ezisi-7 xa ndandimngenise kwi-neutered wasweleka nje emva kokuba enikwe i-anesthesia, wayenempilo entle kwaye ekwimeko entle kakhulu. Ngoku ndinoloyiko lokuthena, andazi ukuba ndiza kuthini xa ndinenye ikatana
Molo Beatriz.
Ilusizi kakhulu into eyenzekileyo kwikatana yakho 🙁 Phambi kokuba uthathe inxaxheba, kufuneka uyilinganise ibhokhwe ukuze wazi ukuba ifuna ianesthesia kangakanani. Ngokuqinisekileyo akukho ngxaki ivelayo.
Ndithe, ndiyaxolisa kwaye ndikhuthaze kakhulu.
Molo Monica, ndithathe ikati ezimbini ezimalunga neenyanga ezi-4. Bafunyenwe ngabakhuseli esitratweni kwaye kubonakala ngathi banamava amabi ebantwini okanye abanalo. Bebehleli ekhaya ngaphezulu kweveki kwaye nangona amaxesha ngamaxesha bephuma bayokudlala kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha xa bendibona bayazimela kwakhona. Bayandoyika kakhulu mna nesithandwa sam kwaye kubonakala ngathi bafuna kuphela ukuba sibanike ukutya… andifuni ukuba baqhele ukuzimela emini baphume bodwa ebusuku okanye batye…. Kwaye ndifuna ukuba bazive ukuba banokusithemba ngaphandle kokubaleka ngalo lonke ixesha siwela ... ndiyathemba ukuba ungandinceda ndenze into elungileyo okanye kunye namantshontsho am.
Molo Yvonne.
Ndincoma okufanayo neVerónica: uninzi lomonde, imidlalo kunye nomonde ngakumbi 🙂
Banike iitoti zekati rhoqo emva koko, kwaye uzame ukuziphulula (ngokungathi awufuni ukuba baqaphele).
Kancinci kancinci uza kubaphumelela, ngokuqinisekileyo.
A ubingelele.
U-Yvonne ungazama ukusondela kubo ngokusebenzisa imidlalo, uthengele iikati into yokudlala kwaye uthathe ixesha lakho lokudlala kunye nabo kwaye uya kubona ukuba ukuzuza ukuzithemba kukuncinci kancinci kancinci ungabacinezeli
Ikati yam yayihlala unyaka omnye kwaye yayiyiKati enomsindo kakhulu. Ndinenye ikati ebisandula ukuba neenjana kwaye itye umndla, yinto eqhelekileyo na?
Molweni Apreli.
Ewe kuqhelekile. Amakati atya i-placenta ukuze amarhamncwa angakwazi ukuyifumana okanye amancinci.
A ubingelele.