La yenyani ligama elinentsingiselo elinokudala ukudideka. Ngapha koko, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukucinga ukuba lixesha elibonisa into entle, kodwa enyanisweni yiphatheni yokuziphatha engaqhelekanga. Ukuba sicinga ngemvelaphi yeli gama, siya kubona ukuba livela kwelesiGrike ailuros elithetha ikati, kunye nefilosofi eguqulela njengothando. Ligama elisaziwa kakhulu phakathi kwabemi, nkqu iRoyal Spanish Academy ayikalifaki kwisichazi magama.
Ukuba ungumlandeli webhlog, ngokuqinisekileyo uye wathandana nembonakalo kunye nokuziphatha komhlobo wakho onemilenze emine, okanye ndiphosakele? Abantu abanoboya bayayazi indlela yokuzenza bathandwe, nokuba awuzange ucebe ukuba nesilwanyana esitsha ekhaya. Nangona kunjalo, Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba uphi na umda.
Yintoni i-ailurophilia?
I-Ailurophilia yiparaphilia, Oko kukuthi, indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo apho owona mthombo wolonwabo, kule meko, yikati. Kungoko, iseti yeemvakalelo ezingalunganga ezivuswayo zezi zilwanyana kwabanye abantu.
Iimpawu
Iimpawu zeparaphilia zixhomekeke kuhlobo lokutenxa ngokwesondo. Kwimeko ye-ailurophilia, abantu banokuba nayo iingcinga zesondo, isimilo esidityaniswe nokusetyenziswa kwezinto ezimile okwekati, Konwabele ukunxiba njengomfazi onwabileyo okanye ukubona umntu enxibe njalo,… Ngamafutshane, yingxaki enokuthintela umntu ukuba aphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo.
Ngale ndlela, abantu banokubonisa amanqanaba ahlukeneyo ale meko kwaye yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba uyiqonde kwangexesha. Okulandelayo, siza kukuxelela ngamanye amaqela akhoyo ngokuxhomekeke kwiimpawu ezithile ezinokubakho.
I-Ailurophilia
Kule meko, umntu uziva uthando olukhethekileyo kwizilwanyana, kulo mzekelo usiya kwiikati. Umntu akayithathi njengengxaki kuba uziva uthando lwakhe njengento eqhelekileyo kwaye yendalo. Baziva kamnandi ukuba neekati kwaye akufuneki ukuba zikhokelele ekuziphatheni okungaqhelekanga.
I-Ailurophilia njengeparaphilia
Xa sithetha ngengxaki, sele sibhekisa kwinto yokuba kunokubakho ingxaki ethile ekuziphatheni komntu onomdla kwiikati. Olu mtsalane lunokuphela luba yinto engathandekiyo. Xa oku kusenzeka, Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunokubonakala ngenxa yeparaphilia (umtsalane ongalawulekiyo kwikati).
Kule meko, kunokubakho ukuphambuka kwezesondo apho uthando oluziva malunga nesilwanyana lunento yesini. Abantu abanolu hlobo lweparaphilia banokuthatha isigqibo sokuba benze ngokuqhutywa yiminqweno yabo okanye kungcono bangazenzi. Nangona nje unezi ntlobo zeengcinga, ingxamiseko engxamisekileyo yengqondo okanye yengqondo sele ifuneka.
Xa umntu enolu hlobo lwesifo uhlala unengxaki yokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo, into eya kuchaphazela wena buqu kunye nomsebenzi.
I-Ailurophilia enxulunyaniswe nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo
Apha ngezantsi siza kukuxelela ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba usidibanise nesi sifo "nguNowa Syndrome", kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kukuphazamiseka kwengqondo apho umntu anokuqokelela izilwanyana ezininzi engazikhathalelanga iikati zingaphela. abagulayo okanye abaneengxaki ezinzulu zentlalontle. Xa umntu enale ngxaki uhlala ungazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe kwaye unyango luba nzima kuba bacinga ukuba abadingi ncedo.
Zintoni izizathu
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba zeziphi izizathu ezinokubangela ukuba ufumane unyango olufanelekileyo kwimeko nganye. Ayaziwa ngokwenyani ukuba yintoni ebangela i-ailurophilia, nangona kucingelwa ukuba izinto ezahlukeneyo zinokudlala indima. Ngale ndlela, kufanelekile ukuthathela ingqalelo:
- Izinto zofuzo. Umntu onolu hlobo lokumiselwa kwemfuza unokufumana ixesha elilula lokujonga ngaphezulu kweemeko ezithile okanye izilwanyana.
- Amava abuhlungu. Amava abuhlungu ezi zilwanyana ebuntwaneni kunokubangela ukuba isimilo esingaqhelekanga sikhule kubomi babadala.
- Iimpawu zobuntu. Kukho iimpawu ezithile zobuntu okanye izifo ezingaphantsi ezinokwenza ukuba le syndrome ibonakale njengengxaki yokunyanzelisa okanye abanye.
Unyango
Unyango lwenziwa Ukuqwalaselwa kwengqondo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, kunye namayeza onyango. Njengayo nayiphi na ingxaki yengqondo, ubude bayo buya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kwisigulana.
Musa ukudideka neNoah Syndrome
I-Ailurophilia akufuneki ibhidaniswe neNowa's Syndrome. Abo bane-ailurophilia banokuhlala neekati kwaye bazikhathalele, kodwa abantu abachaphazelekayo Isifo sikaNowa abaziva naluphi na uhlobo lomtsalane wesini kwiikati. Banokubathanda, ewe, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba babachonge bekholelwa ukuba bayabasindisa. Nangona kunjalo, inyani yahluke kakhulu.
Izilwanyana zasekhaya kungenzeka ukuba zikhathalelwe kakuhle ekuqaleni njengoko zimbalwa, kodwa njengoko zininzi ziziswa, ekugqibeleni bayayeka ukuzigcina, ubuncinci ngokuchanekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, ngokuhamba kwexesha izilwanyana zinyanzeliswa ukuba zihlale phantsi kweemeko ezimbi, phantsi kwelindle kunye nomchamo. Xa umntu efuna ukubasizela, umntu ochaphazelekayo ukwala nje ukuthathwa; kakhulu kangangokuba kufanele ukuba kwenziwe kwiinkundla.
Amakati zizilwanyana ezizimeleyo nezincinci, ke zihlala zizezona zilwanyana zizithandayo kwabo bachaphazeleka sesi sifo, nangaphezu kwezinja. Ukuthathela ingqalelo oku, Nanini na xa ityala laziwa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqhagamshelana namapolisa, ukulungelwa kwezilwanyana, kunye nabantu abachaphazelekayo.
Ikati, uxanduva
Ukususela kumzuzu wokuqala wokuba sithathe isigqibo sokubandakanya ikati ebomini bethu, sizibophelele kuyo yinyamekele kwaye uyihloniphe yonke iminyaka ahlala ecaleni kwethu. Umgcini olungileyo uya kukusa kugqirha wezilwanyana, akunike ukutya okutsha kunye namanzi acocekileyo yonke imihla, akunike indawo yokuphumla nendawo yokudlala, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, uya kukunika okuninzi, uthando oluninzi yonke imihla.
Akukho silwanyana kufuneka sithathwe sigoduke ngethamsanqa, kungasasetyenziswanga kangako ukwanelisa imfuno engafanelekangaKodwa ngenxa yokuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuhlala nayo. Kuya kufuneka ukuba kukhunjulwe ukuba, nangona iikati zizimele ngakumbi kunezinja, ayisosizathu sokuba nazo ngaphandle kolawulo okanye ekhaya zodwa imini yonke. Kufuneka uchithe ixesha nosapho lwakho, kwaye wenze ukuba uzive ngathi uyinxalenye yaloNgaphandle koko uya kuqala ukukruquka kwaye ke wenze izinto ongafanelekanga ukuzenza, njengokukrwela ifanitshala kunye / okanye amakhethini, ukuluma, ukuhlala wedwa, kunye / okanye uchame kwitreyi.
Ukuba uzimisele ukwabelana ngobomi bakho kunye nesilwanyana esinokuphila kangangeminyaka engama-20, kwaye ngexa laso siyakwenza uncume ngokulula, lixesha lokuba uqale ngokukhangela oyakuba ngumhlobo wakho osenyongweni. Ngaphandle koko, Kucetyiswa ngakumbi ukuba ulinde kancinci de kufike elona xesha lifanelekileyo.
Ukulahlwa kunye nokuphathwa gadalala kwezilwanyana ziingxaki ezimbini ezenzakalisa kakhulu iikati. Kuphela ngabo babathanda ngokwenene, oko kukuthi, bonke abo bane-ailurophilia, njengawe, bayayazi loo nto ekuphela kwendlela yokuba ngolunye usuku siyeke ukukhathazeka malunga nale micimbi iqala ngokuchanekileyo ngokwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Yonke enye into iza kamva, nokuba iyathutha okanye iyachitha, zombini ezi zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kotyando ukunqanda iikati ezishiyiweyo.
Ukuba unothando lokwenene ngeekati, baya kukubulela.