Uqala ngokuzisa ikati, emva koko enye ... nenye ... Kwaye ixesha lihamba, kwaye uneshumi. Kodwa, Ngaba lelo linani elifanelekileyo? Inyani yile yokuba kuyaxhomekeka. Ewe, kuxhomekeke kumlinganiswa ngamnye kubo, imali onokuyenza kwaye ufuna ukuyaba ukulungiselela iindleko zonyango, kunye nendawo onayo.
Ke masibone zingaphi iikati onokuba nazo ekhaya?.
Izinto ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe xa unekati ezininzi
Akusoloko kulula ukwazi ukuba zingaphi onokuba nazo, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba sibe nengqiqo kwaye singakhukuliswa yinto esiyifunayo ngelo xesha. Ikati yinto ephilayo ekuhlaleni, efuna ukhathalelo oluthile ukuze ube sempilweni ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo. Ukuthathela ingqalelo oku, asinakulibala ukuba ngummandla omkhulu, kwaye oko inokuziva imbi kakhulu ukuba sizisa ubushushu obutsha kwaye sazidibanisa sele ingumhla wokuqala.
Ukuthintela iingxaki, kufuneka sihloniphe isilwanyana ngasinye, esifikayo kunye nesihleli nathi ixesha elide, kwaye zama ukuhlala nabo kancinci kancinci. Kwaye kuphela ukuba kuhambe kakuhle, kwixesha elizayo sinokuqwalasela ukuzisa umntu wesithathu, kodwa ... ngaba kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo?
Zingaphi iikati ezithathwa njengezifanelekileyo ukuba nazo?
Njengoko besitshilo, kuyaxhomekeka. Inyani yile yokuba kukho abantu ababhinqileyo abathanda ukuhlala bodwa, oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kwamaqabane ohlobo lwabo, kwaye kukho nabanye abakonwabelayo ukudlala nezinye iikati.. Ukuthintela iingxaki, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ukuba unabahlobo abahlala nomntu othanda uboya, ubamemele endlwini yakho ukuze babone ukuba basabela njani.
Ngokwembono ebonakalayo, iingcali ezininzi ziyavuma ukuba ukuba nekati enye ukuya kwezintathu yeyona nto ifanelekileyo kumakhaya amaninzi. Oku kungenxa yokuba kulula ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu unendawo eyaneleyo, izixhobo kunye nexesha lokuhoya. Umzekelo, qiniseka ukuba unayo ibhokisi yenkunkuma enye kwikati nganye, kunye nenye eyongezelelekileyo, ukuthintela ungquzulwano lwemimandla.
Kwiindawo ezinkulu, ezinje ngezindlu ezinamagumbi amaninzi okanye iigadi, kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba neekati ezingaphezulu kwezintathu ukuba nje iimfuno zazo zihlangatyeziwe. Kodwa kumagumbi amancinci, umda uhlala usezantsi ukuze uqinisekise impilo yakho.
Impembelelo yomthetho kunye nemimiselo yendawo
Enye inkalo ebalulekileyo ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo yi Inkqubo-sikhokelo yezomthetho. Kwamanye amazwe nakoomasipala, inani lezilwanyana zasekhaya elivumelekileyo kwikhaya ngalinye lilawulwa. Umzekelo, eSpain, ukungena kunyanzeliso lwe UMthetho Wentlalontle Yezilwanyana umisela umda wezilwanyana ezintlanu kwikhaya ngalinye ngaphandle kwesidingo sokucela iimvume ezikhethekileyo.. Ukuba ufuna ukuba nezinto ezininzi, kufuneka ucele isigunyaziso sikamasipala kwaye ubonise ingxelo yonyango lwezilwanyana eqinisekisa ukuphila kweekati.
Ngokunjalo, umthetho uqinisa izohlwayo impatho-mbi kunye nokulahlwa: ukungaphumeleli ukuchaza ukulahlekelwa kwesilwanyana kwiiyure ze-48 kunokuqwalaselwa ukulahlwa kwaye uhlwaywe ngeentlawulo ezinzima ezinokufikelela kwi-200.000 euro, kuxhomekeke kubunzima becala.
Iikhrayitheriya zokuvavanya ukuba unekati ezininzi kakhulu
- Indawo ekhoyo: Iikati zidinga indawo eyaneleyo yokuhamba, ukuhlola nokuphumla. Ikhaya elincinane lisenokungafaneleki ngaphezu kwekati enye okanye ezimbini.
- Izixhobo: Kuya kufuneka utyale imali kwiibhokisi ezininzi zenkunkuma, i-fiders, iithoyi kunye nezithuba zokukrwela ukunqanda ungquzulwano lwemimandla.
- Ixesha kunye nengqalelo: Yonke ikati idinga ukusebenzisana kwemihla ngemihla ukuze uhlale wonwabile. Qiniseka ukuba unexesha lokuzinikela kumntu wonke.
- Umlinganiswa weekati: Abanye banobuhlobo ngakumbi kwaye bayakonwabela ukuba kunye nezinye iimazi, ngelixa abanye bekhetha ukuba kuphela kwekati ekhaya.
Iingenelo kunye nemiceli mngeni yokuba neekati ezininzi
Kwabaninzi abathandi beekati, ukuba neekati ezininzi kuthetha ukuphindaphinda amaxesha olonwabo. iikati zinako dlalani omnye nomnye, ebanceda bahlale bekhuthele kwaye banciphise umngcipheko wokutyeba. Nangona kunjalo, inokunyusa indleko kunye nobunzima bokukhathalela kwakho.
Olona celomngeni lukhulu kukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho namnye kubo ozivayo uxinzelelo. Oku kunokuphetshwa ngokuqinisekisa ukuba ikati nganye ineendawo zayo ezifana neebhedi, iindawo eziphakamileyo kunye neendawo zokuzifihla.
Ukuba uyakwazi ukulawula ezi zinto, ukonwabela ukuba kunye neekati ezininzi kunokuba ngamava atyebisayo kungekuphela nje kubo, kodwa nakusapho lwakho lonke.
Ikati nganye izisa ubuntu kunye neemfuno zayo, nto leyo eyenza ikhaya ngalinye libe lodwa. Ukuqonda iifeline zakho, ukubanika uthando kunye nokuhlonipha iindawo zabo kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba bahlala ngolonwabo kunye nawe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bangaphi na.
molo andinawo amathandabuzo, ndinoomakazi ababini ababehlala kunye kwisihlomelo esincinci, esineekati ezi-6, ingaba sempilweni kubo ukuhlala neekati ezininzi kwindawo encinci? Okwangoku sele behleli notatomkhulu kwakhe iinyanga ezintathu, ekunokuthiwa yindlu enkulu, kodwa sele beqokelele iikati ezintathu, baneekati ezilithoba, yinto eqhelekileyo na ukuba baqokelele Iikati ezinjalo zibenza bazive bebona iikati ezonzakeleyo esitalatweni kwaye bazithatha, kwaye andiyibuzwa loo nto, ngaphezu koko, ndiye ndachola iikati nezinja ezonzakeleyo, ndiyazinyanga, Ndibakhathalela okwe-3 okanye kweeveki ezi-3 kodwa ke ndibashiya kwindawo yokukhusela kuba ndiyazi ukuba andinakubagcina endlwini yam naphakade. Ndifundile malunga ne-noe syndrome, kwaye ithi umntu sisikhongozeli sezilwanyana xa enezilwanyana kwaye abanakho ukubanika ukhathalelo oluyimfuneko, kwimeko yoomakazi bam bekungayi kuba njalo, kodwa bayayiyeka iikati zifika etafileni xa umntu esitya, ziyeke iikati zenze into eziyifunayo kwaye utat'omkhulu uhlala ne-aleji, mva nje uye wagula kakhulu, kodwa babanga ukuba ayibangelwa ziikati. Ndiyathemba ukuba ungandinceda ukuba unengxaki, ukuba kulungile, kwaye ukuba kukho isisombululo.
Molo Pedro.
Ewe, ndineekati ezintlanu kwaye xa ndisekhaya ndedwa ndibavumela benze nantoni na abayifunayo. Bakhwela ezitafileni, esofeni, balale nam.
Kwaye ukuba ndinako, ndingathatha ngaphezulu.
Amakati awadingi sithuba sizinja, ukuba nje afumana ingqalelo ayifunayo.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, xa kukho umntu onobungozi, kubalulekile ukuthatha amanyathelo athile, ngakumbi ucoceko, ukukhusela iimpawu ukuba zibi. Vula Oku kubhaliwe kukho ulwazi oluthe kratya.
A ubingelele.